Is online tutoring as good as in-person tutoring for my child?
By the GlowGrades team ·
The short answer
It can be, but the research so far is mixed. With a good tutor and a steady routine, online lessons can work well. In our view, the same four things help in either format: full attention, the right level, the same teacher each time and clear feedback for you. In-person may suit very young children, or children who find screens hard to focus on, better. Our classes are online, so we are not neutral.
What the research says, in plain words
Researchers are still learning about online tutoring, and the results so far are mixed. Some studies have found that well-run online tutoring came close to in-person results. Others found that online programs had trouble when children missed sessions or were tutored in bigger groups. These studies looked at organized tutoring programs, and at least one measured young children's reading. They cannot tell you how your child's own tutor will do, so treat them as a guide rather than a promise.
The practical lesson: lean toward one-on-one lessons at a regular time your family can keep, since missed sessions and bigger groups were where online programs struggled. Ask the tutor how often your child should meet. This holds whichever format you choose.
Beyond the studies, children differ. Some focus better with a person beside them, and others feel more at ease at home. Both can work well, and both can go badly with the wrong tutor.
What a good tutoring class needs, in any format
Whether the tutor is across the table or across the country, we think a good class has four things. Keep them in mind as you compare.
- Attention. One teacher focused on one child for the whole lesson, with your child doing much of the thinking and talking.
- The right level. Work set where your child actually is, not where a worksheet or a schedule says they should be.
- A teacher who knows your child. The same person each time, who remembers what was hard last week and builds on it.
- Feedback for you. A clear word after each lesson about what was covered and what to practice at home.
How in-person tutoring delivers it
A tutor in the room can see a pencil stop moving, a frown, or a page of crossed-out work, and step in right away. Hands-on materials like blocks, rulers and paper are easy to share. Very young children, and children who find screens distracting, may settle more easily with a person beside them.
Feedback often comes as a quick chat at the door, which some parents like. The trade-offs are practical. Someone has to drive or host. Your choice is limited to tutors who live nearby. Lessons can be harder to move when life gets busy. Count the travel time when you compare costs, too.
If lessons happen in your home, keep them in a shared room, like the kitchen table, with an adult in the house. Meet the tutor before the first lesson, and ask for references.
How online tutoring delivers it
In this guide, online tutoring means a live teacher on video with your child, not a self-paced app. Online lessons cut out travel, so a class can fit into a weekday evening. You can choose from teachers well beyond your town, which helps when you need a particular subject or a teacher whose style suits your child.
The trade-offs are real too. A teacher cannot lean over and point at the page, so a good online tutor asks more questions to see how your child is thinking. Feedback depends on what the tutor sends you, so ask about it before you start. Ask the same questions you would of any tutor, and stay close for the first lesson or two. A little setup can help:
- A quiet spot in a shared room if you can, rather than behind a closed bedroom door, with the screen at eye level on a table.
- A steady internet connection, and headphones with a microphone if the house is noisy.
- Other apps and notifications closed for the length of the lesson.
- Paper and a pencil within reach. Your child can hold their work up to the camera.
- A tablet with a stylus can make an online whiteboard easier to write on, but you do not need one.
- Ask that all messages with the tutor go through the tutoring service or through you. A tutor should never ask your child for a phone number or to chat on another app.
Which format tends to suit which child
If you think your child's struggles might be about focus, worry, or a possible learning difference, start by talking to your child's teacher, and ask the school or your child's doctor what to do next. A tutor can help alongside that support, but can't replace it.
These are rules of thumb, not research findings. Treat them as a starting point.
- In-person may suit very young children who are still learning to focus on a screen.
- In-person may suit younger children who are still learning with real objects, like blocks and rulers.
- In-person may suit families with a good tutor nearby and time for the trip.
- Online may suit busy families who can't add a drive to the week.
- Online may suit children who need a subject or teaching style they can't find nearby.
- Online may suit children who feel more at ease at home, and teens who already do schoolwork on a laptop.
- Online may suit families who move or travel and want to keep the same teacher.
- Either can suit a child who mostly needs a patient adult and a steady routine, and you can mix the two.
Questions to ask, and what to watch once lessons start
The same seven questions apply in either format: the teacher, the starting point, the class, what you hear afterward, safety, cost and what to do if it isn't a fit. Our guide to choosing an online tutor walks through each one, and most apply to an in-person tutor too.
Once lessons start, watch the first few weeks. Is your child doing the thinking, or watching the tutor do it? Do they come away knowing what to practice? Do they look forward to the next lesson, or at least not dread it? Those signs help you judge whether this tutor is a good fit, in either format.
How to choose an online tutor →What GlowGrades says about the four needs
Our classes are online, so we are not neutral here. If online looks right for your child, here is what GlowGrades says about each of the four needs above.
Our team reviews every teacher before families can see them.
- Attention: One teacher and one child, live on video, for the whole class.
- The right level: As deep as your child needs. Practice is built from today's class, not a generic worksheet.
- A teacher who knows your child: Your child keeps the same teacher. The teacher gets a brief before the next class: what was covered, whether practice got done, and where to focus.
- Feedback for you: Notes after each class, a weekly digest, and a direct line to the teacher.
Questions parents ask
Is online tutoring good for young children?
It can be, with the right setup. For young children, ask how long a class runs and how the tutor keeps it active, with lots of chances to talk, write and answer. Put the screen at eye level on a table, and stay nearby, at least for the first few lessons. Some young children still do better with a person beside them, and that is fine.
Is online tutoring cheaper than in-person tutoring?
Prices vary a lot from tutor to tutor, so the format alone does not settle it. Online lessons save the drive, and you can compare tutors from far beyond your town. Look at what you get for the price, not only the price: full attention, the same teacher each time, and clear feedback.
Should I sit in on my child's online lessons?
Stay close for the first lesson or two, especially with a young child, to help with the device and get a feel for the tutor. Then step back so your child does the talking. Listening from the next room now and then is fine, and a good tutor won't mind.
Who can join my child's online class?
It depends on the service, so ask before you book. Check that each lesson has its own private room, that nobody else can drop in, and that a parent decides before a child can join. Here is how GlowGrades handles it. Your child can't join a class until a parent has given consent. Every class runs in a private room. Only your child and their teacher get a key.
Want to see if a teacher clicks with your child?
Every class is live, 1-on-1, with the teacher you pick. The first class is free, so you can judge the fit yourself.
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- The 74: New research: Done right, virtual tutoring nearly rivals in-person version
- EdWorkingPapers: The Effects of Virtual Tutoring on Young Readers: Results from a Randomized Controlled Trial (2024)
- Stanford SCALE: New research strengthens case for virtual tutoring
- The Hechinger Report: Proof Points: New studies of online tutoring highlight troubles with attendance and larger tutoring groups